Sex Magic: The Art of Pussy Worship

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[ Invitation: There is heavy use of NSFW language. I am speaking to the the collective of lovers who engage in consensual experiences and ask anyone who feels uncomfortable with erotic expression and education to kindly exit this Substack or remain curious to learn and continue expanding your toolkit for connection and erotic pleasure. By reading on, you accept. ]

It was the first time my husband dipped his toes into the pool of pussy worship. It was after a week long immersion in the Costa Rican jungle with humans from all over the world, celebrating the power of our pussies. We danced and moaned and breathed life into our bodies and our eroticism. We basked in the energy of pleasure and howled into the night sky as we came home to our bodies and the wisdom of our wombs. We growled and cried out in ecstasy and wild abandon while we honored our sacred slut and the center of which our energy flows. It was a week of magic, pleasure, awakening, honoring and reverence for the absolute beauty of Pussy.

I came home brand new. I felt alive in a way that can only happen when you offer yourself the space to be witnessed in your authenticity, to release the layers of shame, guilty, rejection, abandon, blame, judgement, criticism, and hate that we wear for being conditioned to believe we are less than, not inherently whole and worthy of living a life fully expressed, safely loved and well fucked.

I became the permission slip to show up in my life knowing that I am sovereign. I can make my cake and eat it off of my husband too. I am worthy of commanding ecstatic experiences, satisfying success, mind-blowing pleasure and deeply fulfilling love and sex and connection.

And when I invited my partner into this new narrative, he basked in it with me. He benefited from the radical acceptance I’d offered myself. He joined in exploring what a gift it is to be intimate in a sacred way. He honored my body and my vulva in a way he’d never done before. He connected to the power of pussy. He was glorious —It was sexy as fuck. We were entangled and primal, whimpering, moaning, growling, breathing, fucking and making love — making magic. I wanted the entirety of him inside of me and he felt he couldn’t fill me enough. It was a yearning and an aching while simultaneously feeling deeply fulfilled. I was already so close to my orgasm when he spoke those unprompted words —

“Your pussy is magical. She’s powerful. She feels so fucking good.”

I came undone. Now, let’s get one thing clear, this magical art isn’t simply a few delicious adjectives offered in the heat of the moment, although it sure makes for a really exciting and juicy experience — and one hell of an orgasm. To worship the magnificence between your/her thighs is to intentionally create sacredness in the sexual experience and lead with reverence for pussy. That was exactly what my husband did.

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Pussy is Sacred

When I talk about pussy, I’m speaking to the energetic space she encompasses as much as the physical.

She is powerful. She is royal. She is sovereign. She is radiant. She is beautiful. She understands what it means to value and care. She makes intentional choices to consume or release. She has ancestral wisdom. She knows what makes her feel good. She is a portal for creation and creativity. She loves to be honored and worshiped and in return she will give of herself in ways that will devour, satiate and please without constraint. She is sacred.

And she deserves an Alter.

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Don’t Take My Word For It? Ask History and Tradition

The art of Pussy Worship is not a new phenomenon. In the Tantric tradition, the yoni—your pussy—is seen as the ultimate symbol of the divine feminine. It’s the seat of creation, the cosmic center, it’s not just a source of pleasure, it’s a spiritual apparatus. Worshiping the yoni is an act of honoring your goddess energy and tapping into that powerful, sexual force that makes the world come alive. Slow, deliberate touch, deep breaths, sacred sounds, and an open heart are the tools to unlocking the mysteries of the universe — even if this sounds bit “woo woo”, the more you lean into the magic, the more practical it becomes.

This isn’t your average self-care or partner practice. It’s art. It’s sex magic. Every stroke, every chant, every breath ignites energy within you, leading you to a place where pleasure meets power. You become the creator, the muse, and the goddess all in one, channeling divine energy with every touch and every praise.

And let’s talk history—because ancient cultures weren’t afraid to honor the magic of pussy. In ancient Egypt, the goddess Hathor, the queen of love, music, pleasure, dance, fertility, and sexual energy, was adored and celebrated like the divine being she was. And the Greeks with their love for the divine feminine, honored Artemis, the Goddess of fertility (childbirth), strength (hunt), & sexuality (chastity), was revered in rituals that connected women’s bodies to the earth, power and the cosmos.

It wasn’t solely about worship—it was about celebration. There were festivals, rituals, and literal orgasms of joy surrounding the reverence for the feminine. For centuries and millennia, in cultures all over the world, the vulva has been seen as a divine force of creation, celebrated with music, dance, and sacred sexuality rituals. Your pussy isn’t just a part of your body—it is a link to the universe and to the divine.

So, why do I call pussy worship an art and why is it so damn powerful? Because it’s not simply about “getting off”— it’s about unleashing your full potential as a feminine being. It’s about expression and co-creating with God or your lover. It’s about tapping into the creatrix within and pouring your power into your pleasure. When you honor your pussy, you honor the very core of your sexuality, the very core of existence. You tap into a source of energy that’s pure, unapologetic, and undeniably confident and holy.

When you worship your pussy, you’re reclaiming your body, your pleasure, and your magic. When you invite a lover into creating art with you, it taps into our original essence of love and the foundation of connection that binds us. The more you lean into that energy, the more you become a magnet for everything you desire: pleasure, connection, aliveness, wholeness and orgasms — so many different types of orgasms. It’s time to channel that power, babe, and let it light up every corner of your life.

Adorn Your Alter, Worship Daily

Here’s the practical side of sex magic. Lean in solo or invite your partner — you can absolutely do both. They will provide different and equally expansive experiences — either way, make it ritualistic, ceremonial, habitual. Spend intentional time in consecration. Adorn your Alter and worship daily. Let’s get into it!

Adorn Your Alter

If we're adorning the altar of pussy, we’re talking about ceremony, beauty, reverence, and sacred indulgence. Here are five offerings to lay at the altar:

Pleasure Nectar

Anoint yourself with something luscious and play-safe honey, coconut oil, edible rose syrup or lube. Let your fingers glide over your skin like a blessing, savoring the sensation. Taste yourself if you desire. Let your body know it is sweet, worthy, and divine.

Create A Throne

Drape yourself in silk, lace, or something deliciously sensual. Lay lavish fabrics beneath you, creating ritual space and honoring the energy that holds you. Let your altar be a throne or temple—worthy of a goddess. If you are someone who releases more fluids, I recommend an absorbing mat or blanket.

Offerings & Fragrance

Place petals, crystals (including dildos and yoni eggs), edible gold flakes (anything you want offer up to pussy) around your hips and over the mons of your vulva ( the pubic mound above your labia majora aka the outer lips ), scent your inner thighs with jasmine, lavender, or vanilla. Breathe in the fragrance, affirming that your body and your pussy are deserving of adornment.

Words of Devotion

Write a love letter to your pussy. Speak it aloud. Offer gratitude for the pleasure, the wisdom, the power she holds. If you are with a lover, invite them to speak their own devotions, whispering praise like a prayer.

Illumination & Music

Light candles, bask in the glow. Play sensual, devotional music. Let the flicker of light set the mood for worship and mirror the spark of desire. Allow the music to awaken the erotic energy inside of you — and your lover. Extra points if either of you sing to pussy.

This altar is a space where you are the divine, the worshiper, and the worshiped. No shame, no rush—just full-bodied reverence.

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How To Solo Worship:

Mirror-Play & Admiration

Sit in front of a mirror, spread comfortably, and gaze at yourself and your body with love. Trace your fingers along your inner thighs, over your vulva, and appreciate the beauty of your shape. Out loud, offer affirmations like "You are sacred. You are powerful. You deserve pleasure." Let it be a mix of curiosity, exploration, and admiration.

Sensory Devotion

Use oils, warm towels, or even rose petals to nurture and honor yourself. Apply a luscious body safe oil or lube to your fingers and pussy, slowly and intentionally massaging and appreciating the softness, the texture, and the sensations without rushing to climax. Really allow yourself to indulge and pamper this gorgeous part of you.

The Church of Pussy

Create your scripture. Let it be one that turns you on, letting yourself fully indulge in your own arousal. This is devotional, speak your desires into existence. This isn't just about pleasure—it's about honoring what excites you without shame, guilt, caution or judgment.

Ritual Space

Focus your breath into your pelvis, doing deep inhales that send energy straight to your womb ( or womb space ), clitoris, and all other parts of your vulva and nipples. Visualize golden light warming and awakening your sexual energy. Feel the throbbing, the life force, the power of your pussy. Let it radiate throughout your entire being and through space and time.

Ceremony

Instead of masturbating with an end goal, create a ceremony. Use light, feathery strokes, explore different pressures, tease yourself, and edge—building pleasure, but not rushing to orgasm. Offer love and safety to yourself throughout ceremony. Give thanks and gratitude. Consecrate your pleasure and this experience to your highest self and to your mission and/or purpose. If/when orgasm is begging for release, let yourself give over and praise yourself and your pussy in every way that feels devotional.

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Let yourself dive into the experience of self-witnessing. Connect to your body and eroticism with a daily pleasure practice. Honoring your body, your sexuality and the power of your pussy doesn’t have to feel intimidating or scary. It is meant to be enjoyable, playful, sensual and sexy AF!

The Pleasure Agenda: Mirror Play

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How To Worship Your Partner:

Intentional Gaze & Praise

Look at her. Don’t just glance—take her in. Look at her pussy, admire it. Hold her open and marvel at her body. She wants to see the hunger in your eyes, the reverence. Tell her what you see. Tell her what you love. Say it out loud. Whisper it against her skin. "You are a goddess," "I love how you open for me," "You are perfect." Offer prayer over her and how delicious she is.

Slow, Sensual Oral Fixation

Take your time. Don’t rush the moment, don’t rush yourself. Kiss her, trace her, taste her. Explore her body and her pussy with your mouth like there is no finish line, no agenda—only devotion. Feel the softness, the warmth, the slickness, the way her body responds to you. Let this be worship, not just desire. She wants to feel how much you crave her. Show her.

Bathing & Massaging Ritual

Take care of her. Wash her, oil her, rub her and touch her with intention. Make it slow, make it sensual. Let your hands move over her like she is something divine, because she is. Kiss her thighs, press your lips to her skin. Make her feel adored — There is something so sexy about being bathed by your lover.

Edging & Devotion

Bring her to the edge, then pull back. Make her ache for it. Not to tease, but to honor her pleasure. To make her feel worshiped, not just wanted. She wants to feel you savor her pleasure like an offering—let it build, let it linger. Let her unravel in your hands and in your mouth and around your cock.

Name It & Speak It

Tell her what she is to you. Say it as you touch her, as you taste her. Speak to her body with reverence. Call her sacred. Tell her you worship her. Let your words soak into her skin. She wants to hear it, feel it, believe it. Make her know how much you want every drop of her ecstasy.

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Don’t Just F*ck, Make Magic

There is a time for fucking, there are the moments for making love and then there remains the space for creating art and making magic together. Pussy worship ( and cock worship — but more to come on that! ) is the space for releasing your inhibitions and leaning into the depths of what the sexual experience can offer on a soul connection level. In a time where sex has become an escape, a welcomed numbing, an after thought, a plea for worthiness and purpose, an offering to the highest bidder, my hope is that you know there is so much more this experience can offer you. My desire is to lead you in the direction of ecstatic, fully-expressed and deeply connected pleasure. Free from constraints, filled with presence and overflowing with passion, purpose and soul expanding orgasms. You are divine, sex is meant to be sensational, enriching and deeply profound. So, next time you’re about to get jiggy with it, choose worship at the alter of pussy, consecrate to pleasure and make some fucking MAGIC! — pun always intended.

P.s Fellas, I haven’t forgotten about you! Stay tuned for The Art of Cock Worship! Better yet, subscribe so you’re the first to get that article directly to your inbox!

Author’s Note

Much of how we feel about sex is impacted by how we feel about ourselves. What we think of our bodies, our mindset around pleasure, the ways our education system has come up short in its offering for comprehensive sex education; leading to a cycle of learning about our bodies, our eroticism and "how to have sex" through porn and what media portrays, leaving us with too many questions, unrealistic expectations, unhealthy habits and self-esteem issues.

And then there are people, like me, who dedicate their life to refining our narrative of how we mate and relate. There are educators, advocates, allies and connoisseurs of sexual liberation who dream of a world where no one has to sit inside of feeling like they are broken, wrong, or unworthy.

Side note: I am an advocate for ethical porn by communities that prioritize unbiased and consensual pleasure. I am an advocate for comprehensive sexual education within our school systems, youth to adulthood. — I believe a part of CSE is pleasure.

When we create a foundation of sacredness and education around sex, bodies, eroticism and pleasure, we are able to step into this sort of intimacy grounded in reverence. We get to experience connection and play in ways that feel deeply fulfilling and nourishing. We become beacons for others to experience the same. We change the cycle, rewrite the script and lean into a life that is fully expressed, safely loved, and well f*cked.

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I'm Brianna Endrina, mentor for women and lovers in coupledom. A sort of mating n' relating connoisseur, if you will. I'm here to guide you — and your boo, towards confident eroticism & nourishing partnership!

It’s not just about sex, it’s about sex worth having! It’s about sustainability andpassion. It’s about deeply connected, honest intimacy. It’s about learning be fully expressed, safely loved and well-f*cked for yourself and with each other.

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