I think that's part of it. I also think that people pleasing can be about maintaining an image. For instance, I might please others in order to maintain my self-image as a "nice guy." Or I might please my students because I see myself as a helpful teacher. Or children as a cool parent. So yes, it's about acceptance but also self-image/reputation I may be trying to uphold.
This question is a really good one for those currently struggling with people pleasing and desiring to be accepted:
What part of you is being sacrificed to keep something “working” that might not be serving you?
The other question that really resonated for me (paraphrased): Am I afraid of losing myself in love or never being fully formed by not being in love?
The furnace of love melts away our faltering fears and sets alight our deepest desires.
I really love your last bit. That was so profound. — I’m curious… are you people pleasing in order to be accepted?
I think that's part of it. I also think that people pleasing can be about maintaining an image. For instance, I might please others in order to maintain my self-image as a "nice guy." Or I might please my students because I see myself as a helpful teacher. Or children as a cool parent. So yes, it's about acceptance but also self-image/reputation I may be trying to uphold.